How To Handle A Dog In Heat Without Losing Your Mind
Dogs in heat need to be treated with care. Do you know how to recognize the signs of a dog in heat? Get informed and be prepared for what’s to follow, so you can keep your furry friend safe.
Got a male or female dog and haven’t gotten them spayed or neutered yet? It’s possible you’re going to be dealing with the signs of a dog in heat sooner rather than later.
Because as it turns out, dogs mature…quite a bit faster than us humans! And if you know the signs they’ve reached sexual maturity, it’s one of the best ways to:
- Prevent an unwanted pregnancy/new puppies
- Avoid dangerous situations; – since dogs in heat can be very unpredictable and even run away from home to find the paw-fect mate
- Take an active role in your dog’s safety and well-being
So what are the most common symptoms of a dog in heat? What can you expect when your dog is in heat? We’ve got the answers for you – so let’s get started.
- What does it mean when a dog is in heat?
- When do dogs go into heat?
- How often do dogs go into heat?
- Do male dogs go into heat?
- What are some common behaviors of a female dog in heat?
- 4 stages of the dog heat cycle
- How long does a dog stay in heat?
- Do dogs have periods?
- Female dog diapers: Where they help, and where they do not
- How to handle a female dog in heat
- The dog mating process explained
- The mating act: Am I allowed to separate dogs while mating?
- Dogs and menopause: Is this a real topic?
- Unplanned dog pregnancy? What you could consider with your vet
- Dr. Dwight Alleyne, DVM
What does it mean when a dog is in heat?
A dog in heat refers to the time in a female dog’s life when she’s fertile and ready to breed. It’s the stage in a dog’s reproductive cycle when she’s ovulating, and therefore open to potential mates.
Watch out – during this time your dog may act funny, showcasing the classic symptoms of a dog in heat. And since she’s open to mating, there’s a real possibility that your dog could become pregnant during this time. So you may need to take action in order to prevent an unwanted dog pregnancy.
The dog in heat cycle is also known as the 4-stage estrus cycle in dogs.
⚠️ Being in heat and struggling with their reproductive instincts are prime reasons dogs end up running away from home.
(To, well, find the paw-fect mate for them outdoors.)
Which you can take precautions for by, say:
- Securing your property with a sturdy fence (which your dog can still step or jump over – or dig under)
- Monitoring your dog 24/7 for any funny business (which you know as well as we do isn’t sustainable over time)
- Keep your dog indoors (and deal with them barking their heads off, peeing everywhere in protest, or chewing your slippers to bits out of boredom)
💡Or you could do as dog parents around the world – just like you – are doing. Aka, strap a GPS tracker to your buddy’s collar to do the 24/7 monitoring for you.
Which means, now with just a glance at your phone, you can track your dog:
- In real-time,
- Over an unlimited range,
- While on vacation (or 175 countries, if you’re on a Premium subscription)
No need to spend time, money, and energy building a fence, monitoring your dog all day, or have to deal with them bored or antsy from being cooped up indoors all day.
Just the peace of mind that no matter where your dog ends up for a romp around the neighborhood – or further – you’ll always be able to find them.
When do dogs go into heat?
Female dogs have their first heat cycle when they reach puberty: the time when they become sexually mature and capable of reproducing. This usually happens around six months old, but the exact age can vary by breed.
Small dogs are known to start their estrus cycle earlier, whereas large or giant breeds may not have their first heat until they are 18 – 24 months1.
Heat and breeding in domesticated dogs can happen any time of year – they’re not associated with any particular season. The only exception is Basenjis and Tibetan Mastiffs, who tend to go into heat in spring.
How often do dogs go into heat?
On average female dogs go into heat twice a year, or about every six months. But the frequency and interval can vary between dogs and among different dogs breeds. For example, very large breeds may go into heat only one time a year, while small dog breeds may cycle three times per year.
Dogs typically have two heats per year, but each dog differs in length of heat, discharge amount and hormonal changes.
While a dog is still young, their heat cycle may be irregular. It can take up to two years for a dog’s heat cycle to become regular.
Do male dogs go into heat?
No, male dogs don’t go into heat – only a female dog can be in heat. Being ‘in heat’ specifically refers to the estrus stage of a female dog’s reproductive cycle, during which she’s receptive to mating and could therefore get pregnant.
While they don’t have a heat cycle, male dogs can mate all year round after reaching puberty at around 6 months old.
- If you have an uncastrated dog older than 6 months, you probably know the challenges that come with his sexual maturity.
- Constantly ready to mate, an unfixed male dog will mount things and run away at every chance he gets – eager to meet and “greet” the neighborhood females.
Although male dogs don’t go into heat, keep in mind that the female dog in heat cycle can have a major impact on your male dog.
How do male dogs pick up on female dogs being in heat?
Male dogs will pick up the scent of female dogs in heat thanks to a special pheromone known as Methyl p-hydroxybenzoate. This smell can make your male dog crazy – especially if he’s intact, he’ll become sexually aroused and may put his entire focus on pursuing the female dog.
⚠️ Your male dog might even neglect to eat or drink, since his instinct is very much focused on mating. And during this time, their instincts might drive them to escape from home to find a mate.
So it’s not a bad idea to keep your neighbors informed. (Meaning they can either keep their own dogs indoors or alert you if they see your buddy wandering the neighborhood.)
💡Plus, if you can’t set up a physical fence – why not try a virtual one instead?
With under 5 minutes of setup time, you can set up a “safe zone” around your home or backyard – from the comfort of your couch, via your Tractive app.
Now the minute your dog tries to sneak past this safe zone, your trusty Tractive device will send you an escape alert.
So you can intervene right away and prevent them from invading your neighbors’ backyards. (And romancing their dogs!)
Even better: you can monitor your Virtual Fences for multiple dogs – and even across multiple states. Like this happy pet parent shares:
What are some common behaviors of a female dog in heat?
Not sure if your dog is in heat? Vaginal bleeding may be the first indicator that your dog is coming into heat. Otherwise, here are a few common behaviors of a female dog in heat, so you know what to expect.
1. Excessive licking
It’s normal for dogs to keep themselves clean and tidy by licking themselves. But if you notice your female unspayed dog licking her private parts excessively, it’s a good indication that she may be in heat!
A female dog will lick herself in response to the swelling of the vulva and bloody discharge she experiences as a part of her reproductive cycle. Most dogs can keep themselves clean during this time. If your dog’s discharge is making a mess, you may want to consider using heat diaper and/or dog wipes.
2. Change in urination habits
A female dog who is ready to mate often urinates differently, so that’s clue #2 that your dog is in heat. This could mean:
- Urinating more often than usual
- Raising her leg differently while urinating – or when she sees a male dog
- Frequently urinating around male dogs
So if your dog’s peeing habit is suddenly not as predictable as normal, she might be in heat.
3. Getting friendlier with male dogs
Another big clue that your dog is in heat is when she starts to become more receptive and friendly to male dogs. (And vice versa.)
For example, during heat she may let male dogs sniff and lick her vulva, when normally she would not tolerate this behavior.
Excessive tail wagging is another a sign of openness towards male dogs, signaling that she welcomes physical contact.
4. Change in posture & tail position
When female dogs enter the estrus (second) phase of the dog in heat cycle, they’re ready to mate and they show this with their posture and tail position. Your dog make take a suggestive posture, as an invitation to male dogs. You’ll also see her raise her tail slightly and move it to the side – this position becoming even more pronounced when she’s touched.
5. Mounting, humping & hyperactivity
When aroused, female dogs may mount, hump or thrust when they’re ready to mate – it’s not just male dogs. This is one of the most obvious signs of a dog in heat. She’ll mount or hump both male and female dogs, or other things she might mistake for a dog.
Your dog may also become hyperactive while in heat – seemingly having way more energy than usual. Which, sadly, might end up in at least an escape attempt or two from your backyard, pulling on the leash, or even while out on walks or runs outdoors.
⚠️ Make sure to keep your dog firmly leashed no matter where you two are outdoors – especially during this time.
Besides making themselves a nuisance to other dog parents, there’s always the risk your running dog might end up getting hit by a passing vehicle, colliding with other people or animals…or just ending up too far from safety.
But if you’ve planned ahead for an emergency and you’ve still got a runaway dog at hand – just hit “LIVE” on your Tractive device.
And within seconds, you’ll be following your dog’s every step – as they make their every step.
Because when it comes to a running, particularly motivated dog – every minute and second counts until you find them again. Making all the difference between finding them safe and sound…or potentially never seeing them again.
6. Anxiety, agitation and nesting
Finally, a female dog in heat may become anxious or even aggressive during the time she’s open for mating. Commonly she’ll also display nesting behaviors, in preparation for pregnancy.
Of course, these are not all the possible signs of a dog in heat. Your dog might also become more affectionate towards you, become lazier or more aroused, show signs of distress or ease, or even run away. How a dog in heat will act depends a lot on the individual dog and their temperament.
In case your dog shows any warning signs of illness during her heat cycle, contact your veterinarian.
4 stages of the dog heat cycle
To better understand the signs of a female dog in heat, it’s best to break down the various stages of the dog in heat cycle, also known as the estrus cycle in dogs. Below are the four stages that your unspayed female dog will cycle through:
1. Proestrus stage
The first stage of the dog heat cycle is called proestrus. This stage can last from 3 to 17 days, but many dogs experience about 9 days in proestrus. The first sign of this stage is the swelling of the vulva. This is one of the best ways to spot the beginning of a dog heat cycle. During the proestrus stage, you may notice the following symptoms:
- A personality change:
- Changes can range from quite mild to more severe. Sometimes a female dog will become more affectionate and clingy with her owner, other times she may seem a bit grumpy.
- Appetite changes:
- It’s not unusual for a dog to go off her food a bit during this first week, or she may get hungrier. Whatever the change is, taking note of it can be a significant clue that the heat cycle has begun.
- Swelling of the vulva:
- The amount of vulva swelling varies from dog to dog. Some dogs swell just a bit, while others swell quite a lot. Bleeding also varies, but typically bleeding is light during the first few days and grows a bit heavier mid-week.
- Tail tucking:
- This is a reaction to guard the vulva, either by tucking the tail between the leg or sitting down whenever another dog approaches.
2. Estrus Stage
The estrus stage typically last from 3-21 days and lasts 9 days on average. This is the time your dog is fertile (her actual heat) and where the ovaries begin to release eggs for fertilization. During this stage the female dog will be willing to accept male company. She will switch her tail to the side and she might try to be outside more often than normally. She is following her instinct to breed. During this period, symptoms include:
- Lightened discharge:
- Previously bright red, the discharge now lightens to be somewhat pink.
- Softening of the vulva:
- Initial swelling subsides just enough to make the vulva soften enough for penetration.
- Flirting:
- Whereas she previously tucked her tail to push away male company, she now begins to behave flirtatiously. E.g. inviting the male by turning her rear toward him and holding the tail high and out of the way.
3. Diestrus Stage
As diestrus takes over, the fertile part of the heat cycle comes to an end. This stage can last from 60-90 days and, at this point, the dog is no longer fertile. If the dog has been impregnated, the diestrus stage lasts from the end of the estrus until the birth of the puppies (around 60 days). Signs of the diestrus stage include:
- Gradual disappearance of vulva swelling:
- Most of the swelling is gone within one week’s time, but the vulva may remain slightly enlarged.
- Less flirting:
- Whether pregnant or not, the dog now lacks the conditions to mate and is no longer interested in flirting.
4. Anestrus Stage
Anestrus is the final stage of the dog heat cycle, also known as the resting stage. This is the longest phase of a dog’s heat cycle, from 100-150 days, at the end of which the entire heat cycle starts again.
How long does a dog stay in heat?
Female dogs in heat in the estrus phase of the heat cycle usually display the signs of heat for 3 – 21 days or 9 days on average. For more information see the detailed explanation above. Dogs will typically have two heats per year, but each dog differs in length of heat, discharge amount and hormonal changes.
Do dogs have periods?
You might wonder: do female dogs have periods? Female dogs do bleed as a part of their reproductive cycle. But unlike human women who bleed about once a month, un-neutered female dogs bleed during the estrus phase of their cycle.
Dogs in heat will have a blood-tinted discharge along with a swollen vulva. The heat can last up to three weeks. The bloody discharge usually starts out dark in color, and gradually lightens over time.
Female dog diapers: Where they help, and where they do not
Female dogs are, similar to humans, usually very neat during their heat period. But this behavior varies from dog to dog. Some dogs will clean themselves meticulously, while others can be very neglectful. In the same way, the intensity of their bleeding can vary.
In case you’re having trouble with your dog’s spotting, you can consider using a dog diaper for the duration of your female dog’s heat. There are:
- Reusable dog diapers: an eco-friendly and cost saving option, if you’re okay with washing your dog’s diapers
- Disposable dog diapers: best for dog parents looking for a quick, convenient solution
- Full body dog diapers: a good choice for dogs who have trouble keeping their diapers on
Of course, you need to give your dog time to get used to this first. You could start preparing your dog for the new clothing item, before the period kicks in.
Keep in mind: Dog diapers will not protect your female dog from the mating act! Uncastrated male dogs are usually very determined – and may succeed in mating with a female dog in heat even if she’s wearing a diaper.
How to handle a female dog in heat
1. Never let your dog out in the yard alone
Make sure at least someone’s supervising your dog when they’re out in your backyard while she’s in heat. A passing male dog picking up on her scent can very easily step or jump over your fence (or dig under it) to reach her!
2. Keep your dog on a leash during walks
Even if you consider your dog extremely well trained, walking off-leash is a “no-no” when your dog is in heat. No obedience training is as strong as natural instincts.
3. Balance between exercise and rest
Different dogs react differently to heat. Some may feel tired all day, while others may become restless. Observing your dog’s behavior and choosing the right amount of rest and exercise is important to keep your dog comfortable.
💡Ensuring your dog is well-exercised is one of the best ways to prevent a runaway attempt. Better yet, setting yours activity goals – and comparing how active your buddy is to other, similar dogs around the world.
Both of which your trusty Tractive device comes equipped with – perfect for that little dopamine rush from seeing your dog hit their daily activity targets and top your community leaderboard!
4. Consult a vet
Even though being in heat is not an illness, having a chat with your veterinarian about things to take care of during heat may help you if unexpected trouble occurs.
5. A scent-masking substance on the tip of her tail
When walking outdoors, applying a scent-masking substance (like a pet-safe cologne or deodorizer) can help hide the scent. It may become handy if a male dog suddenly appears nearby, so he does not detect your female in heat.
6. Monitor your dog’s favorite hangout spots
Much like cats, dogs also have favorite spots around your house, backyard, and even wider neighborhood where they like to hang out, hunt, or just relax and get some pets from passersby.
For a dog in heat, this means they’re most likely looking for:
- Secure “hidden” spots to safely deliver their litter of puppies
- …or wherever they might find themselves the paw-fect mate.
Which could be a cozier spot in your backyard, the barn next door…or miles away from safety.
💡It’s where your Tractive device’s 24-hour Heat Map and Location History can be a lifesaver. (365 days on a Premium subscription.)
Ensuring you can pick up on where your dog’s been spending most of their time (and which parts of your fence need patching) – with just a glance at your phone, all from the comfort of your couch.
Meaning, the next time your dog goes missing – you know where to look first.
The dog mating process explained
This following infographic illustrates the act of sex or mating between two dogs. The different stages and duration of the dog mating process are as follows:
- First Stage Coitus (approximately 2 minutes)
- The Turn (approx. 5 seconds)
- Second Stage Coitus (5-45 minutes)
First, the male dog will sit on the female dog (first state coitus). Should they keep this initial position, they would suffer from severe cramps.
For this reason, they will change positions (the turn), and the dogs will continue mating (second stage coitus) as illustrated in the infographic below. The uterus, vagina, bulb, vulva and penis are all involved in the sexual act between dogs.
One of the main takeaways from the infographic is the fact that you should avoid separating dogs during the mating act, since this can lead to serious consequences.
The mating act: Am I allowed to separate dogs while mating?
There is a clear answer to this: NO, under no circumstances! You can easily harm both dogs. (Since the limb of your dog is swelling, while the muscles of your female dog are contracted.)
The mating act should not be mistaken as a light encounter. This process can last up to 30 minutes and…yes, we get it, it does look embarrassing for us humans.
Dogs and menopause: Is this a real topic?
No, dogs don’t go through menopause. Your female dog is fertile until the end.
However, a missed heat period can be a sign of illness in dogs. Should you notice this happening, make sure to pay your vet a visit.
Unplanned dog pregnancy? What you could consider with your vet
Despite all tips and measures, your furry friend could become pregnant. Here are your options, in case of an unplanned dog pregnancy:
- Abortion shot: This option is not without risks and should be only used in extreme emergency cases.
- Hormonal suppression: With this treatment, one can provoke various uterus illnesses to the female dog. Should this option be the only way, your vet is only allowed to give the shot during the hormonal pause period. (In order not to harm your dog’s uterus.)
- Spaying the female before the puppies come to full-term.
In all situations, always make sure to work with your vet. Your dog’s health and well-being relies on it.
But most importantly…
If you think your dog may be going into heat soon – meaning yet another litter of puppies! – tracking their movements in real-time can be a lifesaver.
A particularly motivated dog can travel several miles away from home in search of the perfect mate.
And there’s always the risk they might be:
- Hit by a car,
- Attacked by another pet or person,
- Eat something that’s off-limits for them…the list goes on.
But with a dedicated pet GPS tracker strapped to your buddy’s collar, you’ll never worry about losing them ever again.
Always know where your dog is
Follow every step in real-time with unlimited range. Get alerts if they wander too far. Keep them happy & healthy with Wellness Monitoring. And let others – like walkers or sitters – keep an eye on your dog too.
For more insights on female dogs in heat, check out the video below:
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This post was checked, double-checked, and medically verified by Georgia-based vet, Dr. Dwight Alleyne.
Dr. Dwight Alleyne, DVM
Dwight Alleyne was born and raised in Long Island, New York where his love of animals began. His career for animals began working for a well-known no-kill animal shelter on Long Island.
He worked his way up the career ladder working as a kennel technician, veterinary assistant, and then becoming a licensed veterinary technician at the shelter.
His passion for veterinary medicine led to him applying to and being accepted at Cornell University Veterinary where he graduated from in 2006. After completing a small animal rotating internship at Purdue University, he eventually made his way to Georgia where he has been practicing ever since.
Dr. Alleyne has practiced at several small animal clinics throughout Georgia. He has a keen interest in soft tissue surgery and has extensive experience in performing ultrasounds including echocardiograms.
When he is not practicing medicine, Dr. Alleyne enjoys writing and editing pet health articles and providing pet advice through telehealth.
Dr. Alleyne also has his own blog called “The Animal Doctor Blog.” Check it out on: www.anmldrblog.com.